The first retreat of its kind, created specifically to help targets of workplace abuse heal from their experience.
During this all-inclusive, intimate getaway, you'll find validation and connection in our safe haven to move forward.
The result: a life of purpose defined by you — and no one else.

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If you feel like a shell of your old self and can't get back your spark after abuse at work, connect with us, kick up your heels, and tell life who's boss.

Do you wish you could just move on from the intense grief and anger from workplace abuse but you can’t get away from ruminating about the completely unfair experience?

Do you hope to take a next step in life, but fear has a grip on you?

Have you lost hope for your outlook — and entire life — to get better?

Workplace abuse disrupts the life we once knew — and loved. The emotions that follow often result in a decline to our mental and emotional health. We feel stuck in a state of anger and depression, unable to move forward with our lives.

You want to now find validation and clarity to re-define yourself and re-discover your self-worth as you heal from the trauma.

At the Re-Define Retreat, you’ll transcend your pain, using proven coping strategies, tools, and methods of recovery from workplace abuse. With connection, support, community, self-care, and creativity, you can move on to your best life yet.

Join us as we unearth an energy that ignites you into envisioning a life you absolutely love, with practical steps to get there in this weekend getaway of support, warmth, and inspiration.


Re-new: how we’ll heal

Quiet your mind as you connect with others and better understand the abuse playbook isn’t about you

Discover journaling, the perfect technique for dealing with and letting go of complex emotions to restore your mental and emotional health

Rid yourself of old paradigms and gain clarity to transcend your painful past with harborside morning exercise and a nature walk

Find the fun and creativity in life again through cooking and painting

Keep the focus on your purpose and future possibilities with chats about what’s next in your career and self-care, getting back in touch with what brings you joy

Find your people by building a new community to connect with during and after your stay

Tap into your inner badass and define your life by your terms — no one else’s

Wainright House, Rye, NY

Re-fresh: where we’ll stay

Approaching the exquisite stone mansion reminiscient of 17th-century France, you’ll begin to relax as you take in the breathtaking awe of this hidden treasure. The chateau’s magnificence, nestled among peaceful gardens, trees, and lawns, is the perfect backdrop for this intimate, secluded retreat in their carriage house.

Noticing the spectacular view of the harbor, you won’t be able to decide where you’ll spend your time relaxing first — inside on the beautiful furnishings connecting with new friends or outside on the immense lawn taking in a deep breath and immersing yourself in nature. During your stay, you’ll take in all of it: the rugged beauty of the great outdoors and the comfort of cozy accommodations, mouthwatering meals, and soul-warming connections.

The Wainwright House is at 260 Stuyvesant Ave., Rye, New York. We will stay at the Fonrose House carriage house. The driveway is just past the Wainwright House driveway.

30 minutes from NYC:
Rye is on the Metro North New Haven line, and the Fonrose House at the Wainwright House is just seven minutes from the train station.

25 minutes from Westchester Airport (HPN)
35 minutes from LaGuardia Airport (LGA)

45 minutes from JFK Airport (JFK)
60 minutes from Newark Liberty International Airport (EWR)

3 hours from central Massachusetts:
The house is a stone’s throw from routes 95 and 287.

Take a break from your daily hustle to relax your mind, re-charge, and re-juvenate.

Getting away helps you:
drop stress
get out of a rut
escape your comfort zone
feel free
interact with the world around you through new experiences
improve your mental health

We'll guide you through your transformation.

$580 Regular Ticket
  • Limited to 14 spots only
  • All meals (Friday dinner through Sunday breakfast)
  • Journal
  • Two nights lodging with shared accommodations
  • Guided walk
  • Two exercise classes
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$582 Payment Plan Ticket
  • 3 monthly payments of $194
  • All meals (Friday dinner through Sunday breakfast)
  • Journal
  • Two nights lodging with shared accommodations
  • Guided walk
  • Two exercise classes
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Any Donation
  • For those who can't make it to the event but still want to support it. (Donations are NOT tax-deductible.)
  • Possibilities for what donations will support include:
  • Scholarships for attendees
  • Additional resources
  • Future events

Not included: transportation, the You Are A Badass book, exercise mat
Photos on this page by the Wainwright House.


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