— a Re-Define Summit warrior
When a supervisor or co-worker puts their ego over the organization — and feels threatened by our competence and ethics — they often abuse us because they can. False accusations. Gossip. Exclusion. Belittling. Ignoring. Sabotage.
We suffer. We become overwhelmed with navigating the situation and experience re-trauma when our employers and government fail to hold the abusers accountable. Our dignity, our trust, and our mental, emotional, and financial health fall under attack.
We feel stuck in the trauma when it’s happening — and when we’re out of the toxic environment.
No matter what you do to fix the situation, there’s a giant target on your back. You go into work every day wondering what the next nightmare will be. Lying about you? Ignoring you? Taking away responsibilities? Gossiping about you?
Meanwhile, the more you try to fix it, the worse it gets. You’re sick to your stomach and stressed out of your mind. Anxiety. Depression. Daily. You’re consumed with:
You focus on how on earth you’ll muster the energy to get up tomorrow to go to work and dodge the landmines. You spend every minute of your commute into work DREADING dealing with the bully. You hold back tears. You feel nauseous.
Forget trying to grow in your career. Forget having a plan. You’re just trying to make it through the day.
No matter what you do to move on with your life, you’re stuck in the motions of life. Wake up. Feel numb and bitter. Make it through the day. Repeat.
You can’t stop ruminating about the “what ifs,” blaming yourself for what happened, and feeling angry about everything you lost.
Meanwhile, the more you try to fix it, the more you feel frustrated with yourself for not conquering the pain. You’re consumed with:
You wonder how you’ll get the confidence to look for another job, interview, and avoid another nightmare work situation. You need some kind of break — anything — but the pain lingers.
Either way, it’s BEYOND exhausting.
You wish you knew what’s worked for others who’ve navigated and healed from workplace abuse.
— a Re-Define Summit warrior
And all of THAT means embracing YOU: feeling seen, knowing you matter, embracing the fun, and living life on YOUR terms.
I’m talking giving life a big HELL YES. (Laughing again, here you come.)
You can become it. The best part: we’ve got something to help.
The Re-Define Virtual Summit is about just that.
At the Re-Define Virtual Summit, you’ll connect with other targets as you hear from experts on topics around navigating and healing from abuse at work. Your new tools can help you live your best life.
The goal is to take a big step to understanding how to now define yourself according to YOUR values. Our team of experts will help you on that journey to get there.
It’s time to make it happen so you can become the CEO of Your Life.
— a Re-Define Summit warrior
Subject to change
Saturday, March 12
10-11amET: Understand the history that shapes our ineffective U.S. anti-discrimination laws with Deb Falzoi
11am-12pmET: How to deal with workplace bullies and thrive into higher levels of success with Rita Farruggia
12-1pmET: Post-pandemic possibilities: Trauma-focused tools for transformation with Laurie Smith
1-2pmET: Facts about anxiety that will change how you think with MaryEllen Dance
Sunday, March 13
10-11amET: What you can’t feel you can’t heal with Melany Oliver
11am-12pmET: Recover from workplace betrayal trauma with Tera Brown
12-1pmET: How to get unstuck in your career with Donna Peters
The Re-Define Virtual Summit will run on Saturday, March 12 (navigating) and Sunday, March 13 (healing).
You can tune into the summit from anywhere with Internet access.
Presentations will be roughly 40 minutes in length. The presentations will be available live only — unless you grab the VIP All Access Pass to get lifetime access to all of the videos and slide decks — and all of that plus extra bonuses for the Power Pack.
To avoid tech glitches, save my sanity, and keep things easy for the speakers, the presentations are pre-recorded and will be released at the scheduled time. Some speakers will be available in the chatbox and live after their talks for Q&As.
VIPs and those who grab the Power Pack will also have access to a private Facebook group for the summit where we’ll connect before the summit starts and support each other once it kicks off.
(And don’t worry — we won’t share email addresses. You will only hear from Re-Define and Dignity Together.)
After registering, you can also upgrade to gain access to the VIP All Access Pass. That means you’ll get lifetime access to presentations, slide decks, and access to a Facebook community. Grab the Power Pack instead to add on all of that plus BOTH Dignity Together bootcamps for navigating and healing from abuse at work.
I can’t wait to share this must-have info with you from this impressive group of experts.
All of our speakers for this summit have been hand-picked, and our slots are currently full. However, we’re open to additional affiliates or potential speakers for our next summit. If you’re interested in affiliate details or being considered for our next summit, email info@redefineourselves.com.
No problem! Shoot an email over to info@redefineourselves.com, and we’ll get back to you within 2 business days.
Lifetime access to presentations and slide decks so you can revisit content or get help you miss
Connection with other targets of workplace abuse in an exclusive Facebook group
Everything in the VIP All-Access Pass PLUS
Both Dignity Together bootcamps to navigate and heal from workplace abuse
Know the truth behind what’s going on.
Make decisions and focus on what you CAN control.
Process the emotions and reduce your stress.
Have a solid grasp on what you deserve.
Get yourself where YOU want to be.
Use tools to understand and communicate your needs.
Feel energized by life again (confidence will be your middle name).
Know your values and purpose and sync them with all aspects of your life.
Start your path to becoming the CEO of Your Life by signing up for the Re-Define Virtual Summit today.
There’s nothing like interacting with those who get what you’re going through in ways friends and family members don’t. Validation and support are what’s on the agenda.
Energized, validated, and powerful. Those are the feelings targets from our 2019 summit had after getting together for just ONE day. It’s time to put yourself first.
Why wait for the life you want?
— a Re-Define Summit warrior
If you’d like to speak at one of our future events, get in touch.
You can also learn more about sponsoring the next summit.