Workplace abuse left you feeling angry, bitter, betrayed, and depressed.
Find support and understanding in this two-day event so you can recover and live the life you deserve.
The result: a life of purpose defined by you — and no one else.

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— a 2019 Re-Define Summit warrior

Saturday, April 17, 2021, 10am-4pmET:
Navigating workplace abuse while you’re in it

Sunday, April 18, 2021, 10am-4pmET:
Healing from workplace abuse

When a supervisor or co-worker puts their ego over the organization — and feels threatened by our competence and ethics — they often abuse us because they can. False accusations. Gossip. Exclusion. Belittling. Ignoring. Sabotage.

We suffer. We become overwhelmed with navigating the situation and experience re-trauma when our employers and government fail to hold the abusers accountable. Our dignity, our trust, and our mental, emotional, and financial health fall under attack.

We feel stuck in the trauma when it’s happening — and when we’re out of the toxic environment.

Maybe you’re currently in a toxic work environment wondering, “what can I do to stop this maddening injustice?”

No matter what you do to fix the situation, there’s a giant target on your back. You go into work every day wondering what the next nightmare will be. Lying about you? Ignoring you? Taking away responsibilities? Gossiping about you?

Meanwhile, the more you try to fix it, the worse it gets. You’re sick to your stomach and stressed out of your mind. Anxiety. Depression. Daily. You’re consumed with:

  • Figuring out how you can change to make the bully happy (and realizing NOTHING is ever good enough — no matter how above and beyond you go)
  • Ruminating about what you could’ve done differently to avoid the nonsense or to fight back (the scenarios seem endless, but you insist on finding the perfect one)
  • Wondering if what the bully says about you is true (you know it’s not, but you’re confused why people are starting to believe what he says)
  • Bouncing from figuring out how to confront the bully to whether or not to speak up to deciding if and when to leave — and never landing on a solution that feels right
  • Believing you’re just one move away from the organization stepping in and holding the bully accountable once and for all (but what will that move be?)
  • Justifying to people in your life that it’s NOT you by filling in every detail as evidence
  • Worrying about what other health issues will crop up the longer you stay in the nightmare

You focus on how on earth you’ll muster the energy to get up tomorrow to go to work and dodge the landmines. You spend every minute of your commute into work DREADING dealing with the bully. You hold back tears. You feel nauseous.

Forget trying to grow in your career. Forget having a plan. You’re just trying to make it through the day.

Or maybe you’re out of the toxic workplace, but you’re still wondering, “when will this pain end?”

No matter what you do to move on with your life, you’re stuck in the motions of life. Wake up. Feel numb and bitter. Make it through the day. Repeat.

You can’t stop ruminating about the “what ifs,” blaming yourself for what happened, and feeling angry about everything you lost.

Meanwhile, the more you try to fix it, the more you feel frustrated with yourself for not conquering the pain. You’re consumed with:

  • The hopelessness. The anger. The hurt. The abandonment. The betrayal not just by a bully but by an employer you thought would do the right thing and a government you thought would be on right side of humanity
  • Wondering how you’ll ever trust again, how you’ll get your career back, and how you’ll feel part of the world again
  • Feeling like a burden or annoyance or just plain not good enough
  • Thinking about how you can feel recovered from a situation with no justice
  • Worrying about what other health issues will crop up now that you’re still stressed out about a situation you’re no longer in

You wonder how you’ll get the confidence to look for another job, interview, and avoid another nightmare work situation. You need some kind of break — anything — but the pain lingers.

Either way, it’s BEYOND exhausting.

You wish you knew what’s worked for others who’s navigated and healed from workplace abuse. 


— a 2019 Re-Define Summit warrior

What you really want is to stand in your power and put the wheels in motion to…

  • Get yourself where YOU want to be: killing it on a collaborative winning team you love, heading up your own business you’re passionate about, taking a break in a survival job to re-charge — whatever serves your soul
  • Know the truth behind what’s going on
  • Have a solid grasp on what you deserve
  • Use tools to understand and communicate your needs — because you’re the only part of the equation you can control
  • Get in an energizing work environment (where you can’t wait to get started on your work every morning)
  • Feel in control of your life again (focused and confident even on a bad day)
  • Know your values and purpose and sync them with all aspects of your life

And all of THAT means embracing YOU: feeling seen, knowing you matter, embracing the fun, and living life on YOUR terms.

I’m talking giving life a big HELL YES. (Laughing again, here you come.)

You can become it. The best part: we’ve got something to help.

The Re-Define Virtual Summit is about just that.

At the two-day Re-Define Virtual Summit, you’ll connect with other targets as you hear from experts on topics around navigating and healing from workplace abuse. Your new tools can help you approach similar situations with confidence so you can live your best life.

You’ll learn how to:

Cope with workplace bullying
Manage stress
Rebuild trust
Deal with anxiety
Be resilient
Overcome Imposter Syndrome
Find your purpose

The goal is to take a big step to understanding what happened and how to now define yourself according to YOUR values. Our team of experts will help you on that journey to get there.

It’s time to make it happen so you can become the CEO of Your Life.

The Schedule

Subject to change

Saturday, April 17, 2021, 10am-4pmET
Navigating Workplace Abuse

10-11amET Workplace Bullying 101
with Deb Falzoi
11am-12pmET What We’re Struggling With When It Comes to Workplace Abuse
A group chat hosted by Deb Falzoi (live event only)
12-1pmET Inner Tools To Survive Workplace Bullying and Mobbing
with Lorraine Segal
1-2pmET Legislating Against Workplace Bullying
with Jerry Carbo
2-3pmET Stress: What It Is and How To Manage It
with Dr. Rachel DuPaul
3-4pmET What Does Recovery Look Like? Rebuilding Trust
with Cyrina Talbott

Sunday, April 18, 2021, 10am-4pmET
Healing from Workplace Abuse

10-11amET Polyvagal States and Workplace Trauma Recovery
with Shobha Ranganath
11am-12pmET Understanding Anxiety When You’re A Target of Workplace Bullying
with Shelley DeJongh
12-1pmET Living with Resilience
with Barbara Gallen
1-2pmET Identifying and Overcoming Imposter Syndrome
with Heather Rider
2-3pmET Liberate Your Soul
with Kate Lally
3-4pmET Find Your Purpose, Start Your New Beginning
with Julie Boyer


The Details

The Re-Define Virtual Summit will run on Saturday, April 17, and Sunday, April 18, 2021.

Where it’s all happening

I don’t know about you, but I prefer to leave my house as little as possible during the pandemic. You can tune into the summit from anywhere with Internet access.

How it will work

Presentations will be roughly 40 minutes in length. The presentations will be available live only — unless you grab the VIP All Access Pass to get lifetime access to all of the videos and slide decks — and all of that plus extra bonuses for the Power Pack.

To avoid tech glitches, save my sanity, and keep things easy for the speakers, the presentations are pre-recorded and will be released at the scheduled time. Speakers will be available in the chatbox.

Get connected

VIPs and those who grab the Power Pack will also have access to a private Facebook group for the summit where we’ll connect before the summit starts and support each other once it kicks off.

(And don’t worry — we won’t share email addresses. You will only hear from Re-Define and Dignity Together.)

The VIP All Access Pass and the Power Pack

After registering, you can also upgrade to gain access to the VIP All Access Pass. That means you’ll get lifetime access to presentations, slide decks, and access to a Facebook community where you can talk all things Re-Define Virtual Summit, navigating workplace abuse, and healing from it from your fellow VIPs. Grab the Power Pack instead to add on all of that PLUS must-have bonuses, including BOTH Dignity Together bootcamps for navigating and healing from abuse at work.

The expert speakers

I can’t wait to share this must-have info with you from this impressive group of experts.

All of our speakers for this summit have been hand-picked, and our slots are currently full. However, we’re open to additional affiliates or potential speakers for our next summit. If you’re interested in affiliate details or being considered for our next summit, email

More questions?

No problem! Shoot an email over to, and we’ll get back to you within 2 business days.

VIP All-Access Pass and Power Pack

VIP All-Access Pass: $47

Lifetime access to presentations and slide decks so you can revisit content or get help you miss

Connection with other targets of workplace abuse in an exclusive Facebook group


Power Pack: $97

Everything in the VIP All-Access Pass PLUS bonus content: worksheets, videos, and both Dignity Together bootcamps to navigate and heal from workplace abuse:

BONUS 1: Build on processing the trauma with Exercises on Accessing More Ease

Continuing with the Polyvagal Theory Introduction and basic state mapping, you’ll complete the Polyvagal Map from the prior session and be given ideas on how to put the polyvagal map into use for shifting to ventral states. Two basic Polyvagal Exercises will also be offered: one is somatic and the other is expressive/creative.

BONUS 2: Take action to process your pain with the Worksheet Power Pack

Process your emotions around anxiety, Imposter Syndrome, reframing, resilience, self-care, and your purpose. 

BONUS 3: Take a deeper dive with bootcamps to re-claim your power and re-define your life

If you’re currently dealing with abuse at work, go from self-blame to no shame in the self-paced bootcamp with a private Facebook community to connect with other targets in similar situations. If you’re healing from abuse at work, become the CEO of Your Life in the bootcamp featuring a monthly interactive workshop so you can take step one of processing your pain and living by your values.



Grab these two freebies now:

Breaking Free From Anxiety: 3 Steps to Confidence and Peace Webinar
In this webinar, Cyrina Talbott shares the Rules of your Mind, the Rules of your Body, and a powerful Mini-Transformation to reset your mind for peace and confidence. You’ll have tools to use right away to bring more peace into your life and work.

Watch the webinar.

Shift That Inner Critic Dialogue into Something Positive Worksheet
When the Imposter Syndrome is bringing in all sorts of intrusive dialogue and thoughts, your first step is to notice them. Then, once you notice them, you need to “reframe” the thoughts into something more positive. Heather Rider calls that “reframing” the #1 Fan.

Here’s an example:
The Imposter says “You don’t know what you’re doing. You’re going to fail.”
The #1 Fan says “Maybe this is the first time you’ve done this. That’s ok. You’re going to learn as you go.”

Grab the worksheet.


— a 2019 Re-Define Summit warrior

It’s time to…

Know the truth behind what’s going on.
Make decisions and focus on what you CAN control.
Process the emotions and reduce your stress.
Have a solid grasp on what you deserve.
Get yourself where YOU want to be.
Use tools to understand and communicate your needs.
Feel energized by life again (confidence will be your middle name).
Know your values and purpose and sync them with all aspects of your life.

Start your path to becoming the CEO of Your Life by signing up for the Re-Define Virtual Summit today.


— a 2019 Re-Define Summit warrior

3 reasons to attend:

You can feel seen, heard, and understood.

There’s nothing like interacting with those who get what you’re going through in ways friends and family members don’t. Validation and support are what’s on the agenda for a full two days.

You’ll get closer to the life you want.

Energized, validated, and powerful. Those are the feelings targets from our 2019 summit had after getting together for just one day. Imagine the power of an entire weekend. It’s time to put yourself first.

You can get to all of that sooner.

Why wait for the life you want?


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